When I married my husband we didn’t really ever discuss buying furniture. He had a pretty nice couch (which isn’t my taste AT ALL, but it’s comfy), I had a horrible smelly couch – obviously his couch won. He had end tables and a coffee table (again, not my taste, and they were big and clunky) – mine were bought at Big Lots (before they started carrying nicer furniture) and were in pretty bad shape – I think I ended up just throwing them away, I didn’t even move them from my last apartment. Needless to say – most of his stuff “won” over mine because it was nicer.
The only thing we ever had a “discussion” over was our kitchen table.
So when I was living in Missouri someone at the church that I was attending gave me this beautiful table – I LOVED it – can I say it again, I LOVED it. The detailing on it was gorgeous. It was by far one of the most comfortable tables I had ever sat at.
It was actually bigger than the pictures make it out to seem.
So I move to Michigan and meet this amazing guy and fall in love and get engaged and we both have pretty nice tables. And he hates my table, and I felt just about the same towards his table:
I just felt his was pretty generic – everyone I knew had a table like that. It seemed a little “old” for us – I mean come on we were in our 20’s! We went back and forth on the issue for quite a while and finally he came up with a compromise (since we found out that his table pedestal was cracked on 1 side) that I get rid of mine and after the wedding we would get a new table. I was good with that and found a new home for my lovely table.
4 moves, 3 more cracks in the pedestal, and almost 6 years later we finally bought a table! YAY!! Looking back, I’m actually really glad we didn’t keep my table – because as much as I loved it, it’s really not the style that Brian and I together like. It took us a while to come up with a style that we really wanted to go with in our home. Brian really likes the light oak, more country feel to a house. I like a dark wood, hard wood floors and slightly more modern. It’s really been just over the last year or two that we’ve come up with our style, and honestly I have no clue what to call it! Rustic/romantic/shabby, I don’t know!
So our table was delivered over the weekend, and well it’s GORGEOUS. I found this place called The Rustic Oar in McKinney Texas that will build the table the exact way you want it, stain it the color you want and even provide a place to get chairs if you need them. We are SO happy that we choose to go with them. The table looks amazing and is exactly the style that I wanted.
Brian still needs to put together the other 6 chairs – but I think they are going to look great with the table. Once I get all the chairs set up and maybe find a table runner or something I will take another picture.
What is something you had to “compromise” on when you got married?
Make it a GRATE Day!